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Offer HN: Getting married October-March? I need alpha users. (papercrown.org)
19 points by midnightmonster on June 18, 2009 | hide | past | favorite | 25 comments


I know at least 3 couples (all 3 brides are web geeks) getting married in the next year or so - not sure of dates but I'll pass this on.


Thanks! Before October, it won't be ready. But after October the date doesn't really matter if they're interested in participating.


I know bunches of web-savvy women who are engaged, I'll pass it on.

Looking at all this makes me very, very glad that I'm not getting married anytime soon. Jeez, what a hassle.


"I have it on good authority that the average pro photographer wishes the Internet and all its copyright-violating denizens would just go away"

You say it. I have been unable to find a photographer who could take a picture of me that I could just use on all the social networking sites, no strings attached. I told a friend she should become a "Web 2.0" photographer offering exactly that kind of thing, and she said she couldn't - I think out of solidarity with the other photographers or something like that. I guess somebody else will eventually step up to the task.


My local extended family actually did get a photographer who would assign copyright recently. It was all about finding someone who needed work and didn't suck. We paid her to come out to our neighborhood for a couple hours, and we got a ton of pictures of everyone. It turned out pretty well.


I got married in 2007, the cost of the photographer actually included publishing rights and hi-res digital copies on DVD so we could print and share them as we saw fit.

He still retains the copyright, but had no objections to us sharing them around. Nice guy!


I just sent you an email. I'm getting married in about three weeks and I didn't like any of the wedding website options, so I built my own.

My favorite part was the interactive guest list, so everyone can see who else is coming (and who they might be interested in, etc.)

(sorry, I can't put the link here, it has an RSVP form and I don't want it to get too spammed)


Congratulations!

What's it written in, and what's required for hosting? I'm getting married in 5 weeks, but I've let my new job and house take priority over creating the website.

Hmmm ... is there no way to private message someone on here?

edit* If you are willing and you have a reddit account, could you private message me so we can take this offline? I have the same user name. Thank you.


Im guess ing you were the guy asking about this last night on chatterous.

I'll be interested to see how this goes forward (though I dont think users from this community will be great test subjects) and if you can fix out the main problems.

Good luck :D


Actually, I've never used chatterous, so I guess that wasn't me. Curious what you were discussing, though!

Which main problems were you thinking of?


That's interesting - there was a guy on last night that was asking peoples opinions on trying to tap the wedding planning market...

The main problem that was pointed out is that your dealing with a very emotional point in someones life. Or as Troy Simpson noted last night (accurately):

> its something about how society projects it as the 'most important day of your life' that makes everyone involved really demanding and evil

At the end of the day if something your building interrupts the process or screws up to "spoil things" (using that term loosely - with the emotions involved spoiled could have a very diverse/off-the-wall meaning) then you could end up being blamed...

However it was also pointed out people are willing to lavish money on weddings - so if is has value people are very likely to pay :D

I guess it's a perfect example of taking the rough with the smooth!

(the history of last nights, very brief, chat is here: http://www.chatterous.com/hnyc/history/)

EDIT: I'd like to add I love the idea btw! One thing about weddings is their one of the few mass-family and inter-family "joy" occasions. Lots of people together having fun. Now that more and more people are online and interacting it's a great opportunity to extend the "fun" either side of the wedding day too.


I'll just have to make sure the site doesn't screw up :-)

As far as planning, I see my project as facilitating some forms of it in a very lightweight way--not a "serious" planning app. I'm going for beautiful, fun, informative, and friendly.

The convergence of interest in this space is--interesting! I just got an email from someone saying he'd like to help, except he's working on a competitor.


I know you want to look in your online communities, but I have a friend who is a wedding photographer who can introduce couples with specific dates. Let me know if interested.


Yes, please--really, the idea is any personal connection so people have some reason to trust it when there's nothing but a blog post yet.


I am getting married oct 13th. gammons gmail com


I'm getting married in 5 weeks, but I'll be happy to provide feedback, if you need it.

Chris Erickson


you should probably try looking on a bunch of wedding forums. Would get a ton more users


True, I'm sure. I only want a handful of users for alpha (too many to communicate with and I won't make my schedule), and I wanted to ask in my own communities first.


wouldn't that give you selection bias?


He's not looking for a statistically valid sample, he's looking for alpha users to try out his new thing.


not what I meant, I meant that he might get the wrong type of feedback, because the brides that people on a site like HN know have different priorities compared to the "airhead" type bride on one of the wedding forums


"Hey, I'm new at wedding forums dot com, but I wonder if any of you airheads want to try out my new wedding website service?" Contempt for customers is always a great place to start.

Seriously, if it turns out my alpha users are disproportionately nerdy (which adjective I use with all love) and/or smart and they turn out to be misleading about what "airheads" want, then I guess I'll have built the wedding website service for nerdy/smart couples. I can think of worse positions to be in.


He's saving the "airheads" for the beta testing phase.


i'm starting a gift site. different idea entirely but we should compare notes.


My email's at the bottom of the page linked above. Ping me.




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