It’s interesting because the origin of tipping in the US came about during the post civil war period, when black people needed jobs but nobody wanted to pay them because you know they had been doing it for free just a short while ago. The expectation was that the guest would pay them, not the employer. I guess we still have that mindset.

The reality seems to be that if you tip below the expected amount, you'll be treated poorly, judged, or berated for doing so.

What's more, from the discussions I've read, the expected amount has increased vastly over the last decade.