Because it’s a waste of time to say it. It’s entirely emotional and subjective and not helpful.
Now, instead of listening to you and giving you a response, this person is in some kind of an internal spiral. They will either push back, equally emotionally, or they’ll shut down. It’s a rare bird who will take that kind of feedback in stride. Even if you find one of those, you’ve most likely lost personal capita with them in the process.
Stick to the facts and learn to manage your emotional feedback. I came up in these kind of “blunt” cultures, and it was a terrible waste of time and energy, and it took a long time to unlearn these patterns of behavior.
Now, instead of listening to you and giving you a response, this person is in some kind of an internal spiral. They will either push back, equally emotionally, or they’ll shut down. It’s a rare bird who will take that kind of feedback in stride. Even if you find one of those, you’ve most likely lost personal capita with them in the process.
Stick to the facts and learn to manage your emotional feedback. I came up in these kind of “blunt” cultures, and it was a terrible waste of time and energy, and it took a long time to unlearn these patterns of behavior.